Stranger Danger: How to Keep Kids Safe, Not Scared adults behaviours body safety education child abuse prevention consent keeping children safe kids red flag behaviours stranger danger Oct 21, 2026

When most of us were growing up, "stranger danger" was the cornerstone of child safety. Don't talk to strangers. Don't take lollies from strangers. Never get in a stranger's car.

It's still the first thing many parents think of when they worry about keeping their kids safe. But here's what decades ...

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Red Flags - what are they and when to start worrying? adults boundaries child abuse prevention child safety grooming red flag behaviours Apr 07, 2026

Let me say something that might surprise you.

Not everyone who displays red flag behaviours will abuse your child. 

But here's what I know from nearly a decade investigating child sexual abuse - everyone who abuses a child displays red flag behaviours first.

Read that again.

Red flags are not a ...

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"Do I trust my husband with my daughter?" body safety body safety education boundaries child abuse prevention child safety inappropriate behaviours keeping kids safe red flag behaviours safe adults safe behaviours teachable moments Jun 29, 2025

The Question No One Wants to Ask (But Every Parent Should)

Most parents assume the people they love are safe for their children. That family and friends means protection. That love equals trust. I wish that were always true.

But my years as a child abuse detective taught me something I could never...

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