"It's Our Little Secret" - Why comments like this are a red flag, even when it's harmless body safety education child abuse prevention childcare consent education for kids conversation cards for kids family body safety rules grandparents grooming behaviours grooming warning signs parents protective parenting safe adult traits secrets vs surprises Aug 04, 2026

A few parents have come to me recently with a version of a similar story.

A grandparent giving their grandchild a treat, one they know will spoil dinner and says, "this is just our little secret."

A child’s teacher has personal opinions about a topic that they know parents might find upsetting and s...

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They Mean Well. But Good Intentions Don’t Keep Kids Safe body safety child protection child safety consent education grandparents parenting May 07, 2026

 What to say when the adults you love are modelling the exact behaviours that put children at risk.

I want to talk about something that doesn’t get said enough.

The behaviours we most commonly associate with grooming and child sexual abuse - the testing of boundaries, the forced physical affection...

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6 Ways Grandparents Can Help Keep Their Grandchildren Safe body safety body safety education child abuse prevention consent families grandchildren grandparents safe adults Nov 14, 2025

Grandparents hold a special kind of magic in a child’s world - they’re the storytellers, the biscuit-bringers, the soft landing when life feels hard. They’ve lived through decades of change and with that comes wisdom, love and a deep desire to protect the little ones who light up their lives.

But t...

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